Behind every successful woman is her confident, daring, determined, resolved and passionate self. Or is it? What if it’s a woman who had to –
- Master her subconscious mind,
- Decided to outwork everyone
- Chose to drown the outside and inside voices that told her she was not good enough
- Stuck to her dreams despite falling over and over again
The steps on the journey to success and freedom can be scary, uncertain, conflicting and way out of your comfort zone. It is not a bed of roses or a cakewalk. Also, success is relative. Somebody else’s success maybe riches but yours maybe relationships, or career, or travel. So do not compare chapter1 your story with somebody else’s chapter10 in a completely different genre. Understand a few key concepts that make these women successful, regardless of their industry.
In this blog post, let’s explore the empowering essence of independence and self-sufficiency in women which leads to possibilities and manifestation of dreams. Whether you’re single, partnered, or happily unattached, the lessons in this post are for YOU – for the woman who boldly charts her own path, unapologetically embracing her authenticity and owning her worth, in spite of all the limitations, fears and roadblocks.
Here are four character traits that will give you wings. Try these out for yourself:
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Embracing Self-Confidence:
Self confidence is a master stroke. In the beginning you may start by faking it until it becomes second nature when you stick with it long enough. It means that you do not need any external approval or validation. It means you are confident in self.
If you are looking for any kind of validation from the outer world, from your partner, parents, teachers, kids – STOP! You do not need another’s appreciation to feel valid, acknowledged or seen. Reject the notion that your worth is defined by external validation or approval. Derive fulfilment from within. Whether or not our journey attracts the attention of others is inconsequential. If you took action, and moved one step closer to the goal, you deserve to celebrate your own wins. YOU should see you, feel you, hug you, understand you, be your cheerleader, your ally, and your leader. It is only when you get comfortable celebrating yourself, that you attain that innate confidence.
There’s an undeniable beauty in a woman who embraces her ‘truest’ self (exactly the way she is) and radiates self-assurance. Whether you’re conquering the world solo or surrounded by a tribe of supportive allies, confidence is the cornerstone of your journey to success. Brave it until you make it!
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Taking Charge of Your Destiny:
There was a time when I dreamt of a society where women would fearlessly seize control of their destinies, making decisions that align with their very ‘own’ personal values, passions, and aspirations. Whether it’s choosing a career path, pursuing personal goals, or navigating life’s inevitable twists and turns, women would embrace the power of choice and the freedom to carve out their own paths to success, without the need to ask permission.
It took me a long time to understand the truth that I was a part of this society and that if I wanted change, I had to change first. “I had to choose to be free”. No one gives anyone anything without asking. And then again why ask? Why not assume it is your birthright to decide what happens in your own life? because it is! Once this dawned on me I realized that ‘I AM FREE!’.
I realized I was the only one standing in my own way. No one had stopped me. I did not have shackles on my hands or feet. I wasn’t a tree stuck in a place. I had feet and I could move forward if I wonted to. The truth was – I had build up imaginary walls around me and bound myself within with the shackles of ‘womanly’ duties. The duties that were ascribed to me by the society, the duties that were right for a woman.
Now I know I have the freedom to decide, to take responsibility for my destiny, and to take action to shape my own dream destiny, free of blame.
Now I know if it was to be, it was up to ME!
Victorious women know this and now you do too.
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Prioritizing Self-Care:
As women, a lot of us have been raised to be martyrs. It’s almost like we feel proud to self-sacrifice and compromise for those around us. We forget that there is only so much we can give from an empty cup, without first filling it up. Self-care isn’t selfish; it is a duty to self. It is our birthright. As successful women, we should prioritize our well-being – physically, mentally, and emotionally – at all costs. Whether it’s indulging in moments of solitude in the mornings or right before bed, nourishing our bodies with wholesome food, or seeking support when needed, self-care is a non-negotiable necessity. Self-care gives you wings to fly to your freedom. Love your-SELF! If you love you, everybody else will too.
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Pursuing Passions with Purpose:
Our passions are our dreams – the food for our souls. Even thinking about achieving these dreams lights a fire of excitement in our souls. Our dreams are not dictated by societal norms or external expectations; they are born from the depths of our hearts, driving us to reach new heights of achievement and fulfilment.
Dreams and passions come in all shapes and sizes. Whether it is pursuing financial freedom, creative endeavors, professional ambitions, or personal growth, we should follow them with unbridled enthusiasm and unfaltering determination. Half-hearted attempts and trials will lead you nowhere. Find your purpose, dig deep and answer why you really want to pursue success in your chosen field. Once you Find Your Why, go all in. You may not have control on the outcomes or your circumstances but the one thing that you can do is outwork everyone and outwork the your from yesterday. Strive to better than yesterday and soon you will be on your way to writing your own success story.
Conclusion:
I want to leave you with this empowering reminder: whoever and wherever you are in your life right now, your journey is uniquely yours. Embrace your strength, fears, ambitions, shortcomings, challenges with resilience and unwavering determination, and persevere as a successful woman you deserve to be. You are a force to be reckoned with, and your presence in this world is a testament to the power of female empowerment. So, stand tall, embrace your authenticity, and continue to shine brightly as the fierce and independent woman you are.
“It’s perfectly alright if these concepts feel too foreign to you and don’t exactly mirror your current reality. However, the fact that you’ve stayed with this post until now suggests a strong desire to become the unapologetically free and empowered woman. Just take this post as an inspiration and keep an open mind. Believe me when I say, you will get there. I speak from experience because I too once found myself on the other side, blaming the world, feeling trapped, and unable to see the truths staring me in the face – that all the freedom I desired was within arm’s reach. So, don’t lose hope just yet. Follow this guide and trust the process.”